so here is the question of the day...or year or lifetime. Depending on who you are.
Why is it that women stay with men who are controlling assholes?
I have never understood this. Yes I know...you love them, can't imagine your life without them....etc etc etc. But really do they make your life better? Do you enjoy the fights? The fact you can't have friends that they don't agree with? Or if you make one mistake it will be held over you forever even after forgiveness has been given? Really. Really. I am confused. I guess I can't imagine living my life that way. Always wondering what has made them mad. I mean don't get me wrong I understand loving someone...but how is it that they can love you and treat you so badly? The answer is they don't. They don't love you...they are using you, to make themselves feel better.
I wish there was something I could say to make everything better. Make them the way you want them to be...I mean what else could a friend do. It makes my heart sad....that you don't know what you are worth...what you deserve...is better then what you have ever had.
That is the truth. You could have better...so much better. Beyond what you could even comprehend. If you only knew what life could be....you would never go back or question. Hopefully one day you will see what everyone else sees.
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Yikes. That is a tough one....I've had that happen to me when I was younger, and then to someone I know when I was older. You can't give them any more advice if they don't use it. :( Hopefully they will figure it out on their own. They have to want better for themselves.
PS, I want to come to your party. I want you to come to mine too! Oct. 17th at my house at 7pm.
HEY! I don't have your number! Call me!! 378-6110 xoxo
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